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Are you in a toxic relationship? Struggling with emotional intimacy? Does your husband value you? Looking to deepen intimacy in your marriage? Has trust been broken in your relationship? Wondering why your spouse or partner is emotionally unavailable? Or are you single and looking for dating advice or help creating new relationships? On this blog you’ll find practical insights and advice on many different relationship issues from us and other relationship experts.
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The Hidden Message Of Resentment in Relationship
Some of the most important aspects of our relationships are the hardest to measure.
We easily notice when our partner looks lovingly into our eyes, when conversations flow effortlessly, or when we simply feel energized and joyful in each other's presence.
Similarly, when distrust creeps in, or when there’s tension in the space between us, we feel it immediately. It’s unmistakable and impossible to ignore, yet challenging to pin down precisely or address using a straightfo

Christian Pedersen, Co-Founder, Master Coach
Jun 33 min read


One Couple Stayed Together, One Didn’t
Two clients had the a similar conflict in their respective, newer relationship. One couple got closer, one split up. What was the difference

Christian Pedersen, Co-Founder, Master Coach
Jan 294 min read


Your Fault or Mine? Responsibility in Relationship
It’s an age-old question in relationship. Is it my fault my partner is mad at me? Or is it just my partner misinterpreting my actions?

Christian Pedersen, Co-Founder, Master Coach
Jan 64 min read


When You Get Triggered
A woman described a recurring frustration in her marriage: “I get so mad when my husband forgets to buy stuff on the grocery list. He...

Christian Pedersen, Co-Founder, Master Coach
Feb 5, 20244 min read


We Can't Agree!
After decades of coaching couples and singles, we know that agreeing on important (and sometimes not-so-important) topics can be an...

Christian Pedersen, Co-Founder, Master Coach
Sep 1, 20234 min read


Taking Things Personally in your Relationship
Most of us know all too well how it feels when someone “takes things personally”. It’s frustrating! We don’t get to focus on and finish...

Christian Pedersen, Co-Founder, Master Coach
Aug 2, 20234 min read


Coming Back Together After Fights
What happens in your relationship after you have a fight or any kind of upset? I don’t mean how you got into the fight. I mean, what...

Christian Pedersen, Co-Founder, Master Coach
Jul 14, 20233 min read


Two Ways of Listening in Your Relationship Communication
A client sent us an example of a breakdown from her marriage. She said … I cleaned out the very dirty and cluttered garage making more...

Christian Pedersen, Co-Founder, Master Coach
Mar 15, 20235 min read


Relationships Issues And High Expectations
As a younger man, I really wanted to find “The One”. I was much too private to tell anyone, but I dreamed of a happy-ever-after ending to...

Christian Pedersen, Co-Founder, Master Coach
Sep 16, 20225 min read


What You Can Do To Avoid Fights In A Relationship
Fighting with your partner sucks! It’s exhausting, it hurts, and it sours the mood in your relationship. So it’s only natural that many ...
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Oct 1, 20216 min read


How To Stop Fighting In A Relationship
How do you stop fighting in a relationship? This is an all-important question for anyone in a serious relationship. In most...
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Sep 3, 20218 min read


Feeling Judged in Your Relationship
Do you ever feel judged and criticized by your partner? Do you have the sense that your husband doesn’t value you or your wife doesn’t...
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Jul 28, 20215 min read


How To De-Escalate Conflicts In Your Relationship
“We go from zero to a hundred in no time – there’s no in-between!” A woman in our last workshop described how she and her husband often ...
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May 4, 20214 min read


We’re Getting A Divorce – What To Do?
If you have reached the point where you’re saying, “We are getting a divorce! What do I do?” then this post is a place for you to start....
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Sep 24, 20205 min read


10 Signs Of A Toxic Relationship
Have you ever found yourself in the kind of relationship where you’re asking, “Am I in a toxic relationship?” or “Is this relationship...
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Sep 10, 20208 min read


Avoiding Conflict In Relationship
She had the same old fight she always had with her husband, but this time, he threw his hands up and said he was done. She was shocked ...
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Sep 2, 20205 min read


Broken Trust In A Relationship
Do you ever find it difficult to trust in a relationship? To trust your partner? We talk to so many couples who have problems with broken...
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Aug 25, 20205 min read


Victim Mindset in Your Relationship
You ever find yourself blaming your partner for why your relationship is not going great? Or just plain stuck in a place where it feels...
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Aug 18, 20204 min read


Is Your Relationship Getting Better Or Worse Over Time?
Is your relationship getting better or worse over time? Or is it staying at a steady flat-line Do you feel you get to be your best self...
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Aug 11, 20204 min read


What To Do When Your Wife Or Husband Wants A Divorce
What do you do when your wife or husband tells you they want a divorce? Given that divorce rates in the US are still between 40-50 % for ...
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Jul 21, 20206 min read
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