Give Yourself To Love
Level 1: Foundation
One day to reboot your relationship
Our relationship workshops have been developed from decades of experience working with couples and singles to help them use effective tools for dealing with trust issues with their partners, deepen intimacy, resolve conflict, and for finding life long partners.
Cost: $295 per person.
When: Saturday, May 20, 9AM - 6PM.
Where: Holiday Inn, Auburn CA.
Who: Couples and singles.
Ready to embark on this journey with us?
We’ll Be Frank With You…
Like anything else worthwhile in life, relationships take work. One of the most common mistakes we make in our intimate lives is to assume that our connection, sex, and communication should be amazing with no effort. Don’t take our word for it, just look at your own marriage or relationships. Does your relationship need some attention? You know the answer or you wouldn’t be on this page.
Whether your relationships is on the rocks or you want to deepen an already solid one, this workshop will help. Thousands of couples and singles have attended, and we’ve witnessed immense turn-arounds every single time.
Unfortunately, it’s extremely common for couples to keep communicating and relating in ways that don’t work. Not because you want to argue and be distant. Simply because you don’t know what to do instead.
Give Yourself to Love offers the opportunity to take a day just for you! Get out of your usual routines and spend a day connecting and learning cutting-edge tools for intimacy, communication, and personal growth.
You might even take an extra day in the beautiful Gold Country around Auburn and make it the perfect getaway weekend! Workshop on Saturday, leisure on Sunday:-)
Here’s What You’ll Get at
Give Yourself to Love
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9 hours of coaching, education, practice, and fun (for the price of 1.5 coaching sessions!)
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A new understanding of what relationships are all about that will allow you to blast through your “box” and erase the limitations of your current relationship model!
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Powerful, quick method to see and interact with the very best of your partner/s
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Look at each other like you used to – through the eyes of love
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How to end complaining and fighting.
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Simple and extremely effective model for identifying what truly upsets you, and how to change it (When you don’t know what truly upsets you, you have zero chance of fixing it).
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In addition: Practical tools for creating intimacy and love on the spot (with whomever you desire); practicing honesty and authenticity in a safe container (remember, you never have to air your “dirty laundry”); be surprised that “working on your relationship can be so fun” (a woman who’d been through two years of therapy said that); and LOTS more.
About Your Facilitators

Sonika Tinker, MSW, and Christian Pedersen, loving husband-wife team, are Relationship Experts with over 40 years combined experience coaching couples and individuals. They are the founders of The LoveWorks Solution, a practical, happy approach to marriage, relationship, intimacy and communication. They are experts at creating a safe space for couples and singles to learn and grow.
Sonika is a Certified NLP Professional, Certified Enneagram Teacher, Certified Mediator and Co-author of Seize Your Opportunities and The Good Divorce. Christian is a Certified Master Coach, Certified Mediator, and Certified Master NLP Practitioner.
It Won’t Be What You Think
It’s not therapy. It’s not processing. It’s not digging around in whatever mistakes you’ve made and “baggage” you carry. You won’t be talking about your problems. You won’t be fixing your partner (or ex’s, or whoever you think is a thorn in your harmony).
You WILL, however, get a totally new and dramatically different understanding of what love and relationship is all about. You’ll see you’ve been living in a tiny box of what is even possible. You will discover why you haven’t been able to consistently create what you want, and you will be able to do just that.
You WILL learn how to do love, and not only that, you will be in love over and over again. You’ll be amazed at the level of safety and connection you can create in a short time, with each other or with new friends.
You WILL get a super simple but incisive tool to identify, modify, or discard limiting beliefs that are messing with you. You will know why you feel bad when you’re triggered, and it’s not what you assume.
You WILL be equipped with relationship tools that will last you as long as you live.
And here’s another let’s-be-frank moment: Nothing is a bigger waste of time and will suck the joy right of your love life than not knowing what to do make it better, while you watch yourself doing the same old whatever you do. You’ll be in relationship till the day you die, so why not figure out how to do it better and reap infinite rewards of laughter, easy times, glorious lovemaking, and great companionship?!
We’ve had people, both couples and singles, tell us they got more out of this workshop than 2 years of therapy!
So What Actually Happens At
Give Yourself To Love?
Our approach is light-hearted in spirit and practical in application. We use a mixture of classroom teaching, paired exercises, personal reflection, and breakout activities. It's not a lecture where you'll be passively listening to us drone on. We'll teach you new tools and insights, and then you practice on the spot with your partner or sometimes with other participants. You never have to air your dirty laundry or share anything you don't want to. We won't be digging around in your "garbage". We'll be supporting you to develop a better understanding of your relationship and give you practical tools to create the kind of relationship you long for.
COVID Precautions
It's our intention to make it work for anyone who wants to attend. In Placer County where the event takes place there are no mandated COVID rules.
We have a simple request for you: Test yourself before the workshop to make sure you don't have Covid. Additionally, please stay home if you have any kind of symptoms. We will give you a credit for another workshop or refund your ticket.
You may wear a mask if you like, but it's not required.
